من أبرز الأسباب التي تضيق على الإنسان سعادته هو تركيزه الدائم على سماع نفسه اللوامة والإبحار في توبيخ ذاته وتكسير مجاديفها وعدم الموازنة بين “التوبيخ والتطوير”
كلنا ذلك الإنسان الذي تأتيه ساعة الضعف والوهن عند تذكر الماضي سواء كان سيئاً فيندم أو جميلاً ليحن إليه، فلينتبه ألا يجعل الحزن أو الأسى يتسلل إليه ليضعف هوانه لمدة من الدهر؛ لأن أثره السلبيّ عميق على صحة الإنسان جسدياً أو نفسياً!
وقد قال في ذلك ابن القيم: إن الحزن يضعف القلب ويضر الإرادة ولا شيء أحب إلى الشيطان من حزن المؤمن؛ لذلك افرحوا واستبشروا وتفاءلوا وأحسنوا الظن بالله، ولا يخفى علينا أن الهموم والأحزان ضيفان ثقيلان على الإنسان في دنياه لا يكادان يفارقانه حتى يأذن الله سبحانه له بدخول الجنة، حيث لا حزن ولا ألم، ولاهم ولا غم، ولا كرب ولا ضيق… لذلك فإن من أول دعاء أهل الجنة: “الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِي أَذْهَبَ عَنَّا الْحَزَنَ إِنَّ رَبَّنَا لَغَفُورٌ شَكُورٌ” (فاطر: من الآية34).

للكاتبة: حنان العنزي
تدقيق ومراجعة: حليمة الشمري.

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