يمُرني في مخيلتي كل مرة أقوال الفلاسفة والأدباء عن تقدير الشخص لمَن حوله ولعطاءهم وتقديره لذاته أولاً.سأتحدث هُنا بالعقل ونبدأ بتساؤل “ماذا لو قدّرت؟”.
والمعنى هُنا أن التقدير الذاتي ينبع من داخل الشخص سواءً متعلم، أو أُميّ، كل شخص يُخلق بفطرته ويكتسب ويغذي تقديره لذاته بالامتنان. عندما نكون ممتنين لكل شيء ولو كان صغيراً سنشعر بالرضا، بعكس إذا كان الشخص لايمتن ولا يُقدّر الأشياء البسيطة، ودائماً ينتظر الأشياء الكبيرة التي تستحق -بنظره- الامتنان ويتحول لشخص جشع لايرضى بالقليل؛ بالتالي يعتاد على طلب المزيد إلى أن يصل أن لا شيء يرضيه.
حينما تكون في باص الجامعة أو باص المدرسة أو أي سيارة، تنظر إلى الشارع ويُدغدغ مسامعك صوت المطر وعيناك تتأمل الأشخاص بأحوالهم المختلفة، وشتّى مزاجاتهم؛ فترى معلم متذمر عند بوفية وعاقد حاجبيه، وقد ترى شخص آخر يأكل على رصيف الشارع وهو مستمتع باللحظة وممتن لها، هنا يزيد الحَمد لله والرضا ومن ثم تأتي المَسرة.
وممكن أن نرى الموضوع من الجانب الآخر -والمهم جداً- أن تقدّر اللحظات وأفعال الآخرين تجاهك؛ تقدّر حُبهم، عطاءهم، أيضًا تعبيرهم -فعلًا كان أو كلاما-. تُقدّر كل شيء يَبدر مِمَنْ حولك، تتغاضى وتسامح مرة ومرتين وثلاث وتنبّههم بأن هناك مايزعجك، ولكن لايجدُر بك أن تقابل شخص لم يُقدم لك إلا كل خير بكلامٍ بذئٍ وأفعالٍ مشينه وكل ماقدّمه كان لأجلك ليس لغيرك.
ممكن أن ترى نفسك الضحية في كل مرة وهنا يجب أن تتوقف! يجب أن تعبر وتتخطى وتُكمل السير الصحيح، لتعيش.. هي حياةٌ واحدة، نعطي كل شخص في عائلتنا حقه بالحُب والتقدير؛ إلا نكران المعروف فهذا أبشع من الكذب والخيانة وكل الأفعال المشينه. نكران “المعروف” والأيام وكل الأشياء السعيدة التي مررت بها مع شخص تنكرها في أول مطبة في حياتكم، تنسى ما فعل وما حاول أن يفعل من أجلك، تنسى قطرات عرق جبينه من التعب فقط ليرضيك ويدخل السرور لقلبك، هنا أنت شخص لا تستحق الاحترام حتى! وتكون النهاية وداعاً وياليت الوداع أتى بالوِد والإحسان دون جرحٍ ولا نكران.
حسباً على الأقوال حينما تجحد الأفعال
هوناً أيتها الأيـام حينما تُزيديننا بالأثقال
- ريناد آل منسي.
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